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My Grandmother passed away peacefully

submitted by TheBasedProthean to whatever 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 02:10:38 ago (+37/-0)     (whatever)

Something a bit more personal tonight. My grandmother passed away in her bed of her home after her short battle of Stage IV Colon Cancer around 10:34 pm in her sleep. She brought full life of everyone in my family, including me. She had the mind of a child but was happy for it, except it only pissed off my mother who took care of her mostly.

Before she passed away, I was able to talk with her and seeing her with high hopes of joy & happiness despite the pain & suffering. She told me that she was admitted into the ER, and able to have all of her examinations & surgery to remove the tumor & colon with no problems, no delays. There was none of the so called "full capacity" & "overflowing" lies when I was there even with revisits despite the no visitation rule. It was empty & quiet. Due to her age though, Radiation & Chemo treatments were out of the option and the tumor regrew back within two weeks.

I'm more angered at my mom though because she failed to take care of her. Take her to the doctor for checks for these things, but never did. I only was notified about it a few months ago as it was explained to me "The cancer showed up by surprise."

BULL SHIT!!! THIS CANCER WOULD HAVE BEEN CAUGHT EARLY IF THE CHECKS WERE DONE!!!

But unfortunately, nothing was done. No check-ups. Knowing my mom and her behavior with money managment, I have this suspicious feeling that she was waiting for her to die on purpose to get the life insurance money. Despictable.

No casket. No funeral. Just cremation & a service of rememberance. All of that talk of donating her brain to sicence for epilepsy research. Gone.

I'm more in the lines of anger & mourning right now. Given everything that is going on, I know that KungFlu wasn't involved, but that wouldn't stop the State from reporting it as a holocough hoax death to increase the numbers.

Yet, even in mourning I need to consider that she signing happily with the Lord up above. Away from this putrid Hell... Away from my mother, tbh. If you met her, you would understand.

Any support is welcomed. Feel free to post any prayers & verses too if you want.


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[ - ] AdolfHitler 13 points 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 03:09:20 ago (+13/-0)

[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry 10 points 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 03:42:09 ago (+10/-0)

Sometimes cancer is a surprise, bro. My father told us about his pancreatic cancer the day after Thanksgiving five six years ago, and died new years day the following year. A tumor was found in my good friend (age 27) in October 2010 and she died in front of me on my birthday in early January 2011.

Don't be angry too long, it's not worth it. It's part of the grieving process, and you're allowed to feel angry and work through it. Just don't try to escape from it, and don't act on it. Find a place of acceptance, and move on. You're still alive, and you don't have time to waste being angry about things you can't change.
Raising a glass to your grandma, bro. Keep your chin up, that where the light is.

[ - ] Battlefat 4 points 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 03:05:26 ago (+4/-0)

Your mother’s frustration is the fate of the faithless — life reduced to impatience. When the money is gone, she’ll understand the magnitude of her loss but no sooner. As for the lack of service for your grandmother, take comfort that you mourned your love for her here publicly and for your effort she is remembered respectfully, if by no one else, then at least by you and I.

Eternal repose grant unto her Lord, and may perpetual light shine upon her. May she Rest In Peace.

[ - ] TheBasedProthean [op] 2 points 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 03:11:15 ago (+2/-0)

Thank you.

[ - ] recon_johnny 2 points 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 11:24:57 ago (+2/-0)

That was nice, dude. Much more well said that I could have done.

[ - ] Cunt 3 points 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 05:12:58 ago (+3/-0)

I'm sorry for your loss.

[ - ] mememeyou 2 points 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 03:07:07 ago (+2/-0)

it's a shame how these Covaids liars are able to cause these horrible real-life consequences. Sorry you had to go through that.

[ - ] Cantaloupe 1 point 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 14:59:26 ago (+1/-0)

Prayers. Sometimes what appears callous may just be stupid; the later it's best to forgive.

[ - ] HeyJames 1 point 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 12:12:45 ago (+1/-0)

She lived a good life, and passed at an elderly age with family that loved her.

You will meet again in the kingdom of heaven with the presence of the Lord my brother. Your mother will answer for anything that she did on judgement day before
The Lord.
This time will pass and you will have happy memories to cherish of her life.

[ - ] recon_johnny 1 point 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 11:24:03 ago (+1/-0)

Death, and to those you love, is never easy.

You're dealing with other things, I understand...but at the end of it all, she passed peacefully. That's a gift, dude. Be comforted with that. All the other nonsense doesn't matter.

[ - ] 1Icemonkey 1 point 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 11:00:28 ago (+1/-0)

Grandmothers are awesome, mothers, not so much. Sounds like your mom and mine should drive off a cliff together.

[ - ] Cynabuns 1 point 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 10:47:49 ago (+1/-0)

Our grandma's are pretty special and it sounds like you had a great one, I'm so sorry for your loss. Try to remember the joyful times now - it's easy to let that anger we all feel take over but don't let it win. She was a beautiful soul who deserves beautiful memories and you are a more amazing person having had her in your life. Only her broken body is gone, her love remains with you always ♡

[ - ] TheBasedProthean [op] 1 point 2.6 yearsSep 18, 2021 21:07:52 ago (+1/-0)

Cynabun, thank you for your condolences. My anger is gone as I'm more at peace now. I remember talking to my grandmother a few days ago and she was full of happiness. Living out her best days in peace.

It's normal for anger as it is part of the grief process, but then I see my left-wing nut of an aunt trying to make the passing about herself. There are some things you just don't do at all and that is one.

[ - ] Cynabuns 0 points 2.6 yearsSep 18, 2021 21:16:37 ago (+0/-0)

Oh that happiness you shared with her just made me smile. That anger will wax and wane, and it's all okay that it comes. I'm sorry that you have to deal with nutty family though, this could be why we find alcohol at many of these family gatherings. Hugs to you.

[ - ] MonkeysSmarterThanNiggers 1 point 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 03:40:36 ago (+1/-0)

epilepsy research

if thousands (maybe millions?) of scientists researching epilepsy for decades still haven't found anything meaningful, then it's because it is demonic possession. but kikes don't want the goyim to know that, because they don't want the goyim to believe in Christian theology, because aside from the normal life, the kikes also want the goyim to suffer in their afterlife. Though I'm not sure if people in hell will suffer forever or their souls will eventually die. Either way it's not good.

[ - ] Jiggggg 3 points 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 05:18:14 ago (+3/-0)

I had two dogs with epilepsy. I'm pretty sure they weren't possessed

[ - ] MonkeysSmarterThanNiggers 0 points 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 07:32:42 ago (+0/-0)

if even non-humans have epilepsy, then the chances of epilepsy being supernatural increase by a bit, my fren

[ - ] Rotteuxx 4 points 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 08:11:31 ago (+4/-0)

No, the chances of it being a simple neurological disorder are increased by a lot.

[ - ] Garrett 1 point 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 12:22:53 ago (+1/-0)

or the solution for epilsepy has been repressed just like it has with cancer and aids and hiv


big pharma wants to keep you reliant

[ - ] yesiknow -1 points 2.6 yearsSep 18, 2021 02:02:47 ago (+0/-1)

Apparently you haven't found out how much meaningful stuff they have learned about the different causes of epilepsy.

Your demons viewpoint aligns you with the communist progressives who have dismissed the western scientific method. Cause and effect no longer matter for them, so covid can be whatever they say it is. Boys and girls are only what they say they are because they see the world as you do.

[ - ] TbonePickins 1 point 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 03:20:21 ago (+1/-0)*

This is definitely unpleasant news. I'm sorry to hear it.

As far as scripture goes, I can't quote any of that; but I nevertheless know The Big Guy exists and is looking out for her.

I'm a bit of a nutter, but I believe our lives here are just the start. God created an entire universe (or several?), why would he relegate us to an infinitesimally small piece of it.


Fwiw, I lost my gran a few months ago. Because of her situation, I fully believe there are forces we can't understand operating behind the curtain of our existence. Rest assured, you will see eachother again.

[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 07:53:32 ago (+0/-0)

My mom had colonoscopies every single year. They misdiagnosed her tumor 3 years in a row. Its not fool proof.

[ - ] TheBasedProthean [op] 1 point 2.6 yearsSep 18, 2021 21:13:33 ago (+1/-0)

My great-grandad died from colon cancer about a year before I was born, so I never really got to meet him but I was told many things as he was an strong man of his generation who fought in both World Wars & Korea and was a true God fearing family man.

[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 2.6 yearsSep 18, 2021 21:39:00 ago (+0/-0)

I bet they haven’t bought the headstone yet. Perhaps you can be involved in that and make sure she has one thats really special and says something meaningful. That might help you feel like you could do something for her.

[ - ] SparklingWiggle 0 points 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 07:14:52 ago (+0/-0)

I'm sorry for your loss. You have my condolences.

[ - ] TheBasedProthean [op] 2 points 2.6 yearsSep 17, 2021 07:40:14 ago (+2/-0)

Thank you. It's been hard. I couldn't sleep.

[ - ] yesiknow -1 points 2.6 yearsSep 18, 2021 01:55:47 ago (+0/-1)

Blame mommy because granny got old and died.

You didn't say your were your grandmother's full time caregiver. If you didn't like the mother and daughter interaction between them, then you should have stepped in and pushed your mother aside and taken over the role.

But you chose to whine and blame mommy on the internet instead