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Leaving your hometown and moving to (((The City)))

submitted by Endo_Aryan to whatever 3.9 yearsJun 24, 2021 08:55:23 ago (+15/-0)     (whatever)

How many of you know someone, maybe yourselves, who said

"This small town sucks! There's nothing to do here, it's all old people/conservatives/rednecks! I'm going to move to NYC, Boston, Philadelphia, Chicago"

Then a whole generation moves away and goes somewhere else, paying high rent and getting further debased by living in a big city full of assholes.

They may return to their hometown for holidays but they look down their nose at the locals because of how uncivilized and uncultured they are.

"Four dollars for organic strawberries? In The City, I can get biodynamic fiddleheads picked by a shaman for a dollar!"

These people might have contributed to the improvement of their home towns before, and helped their elderly parents, but instead they leave it all to rot while they selfishly galavant in a big city that doesn't know them.

Small Town America decays, while the cancerous big metros grow larger.

The closest term for this I can think of is Brain Drain, though it's worse than that.

I see the old-timers left behind, they show me pictures of their grandkids living in Texas. Grandma would be happy to give them free childcare, no sheboons giving the kid benedryl, but no. "Austin is better"

Those big cities and other places may have once had a culture of their own, til every wayward 20-something with a half-sleeve moved in.



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[ - ] MrPancake 4 points 3.9 yearsJun 24, 2021 10:36:35 ago (+4/-0)

I left small town Idaho for Phoenix; about a decade. I am back in small town Idaho and plan on leaving for no town Idaho. Like most millennials (not the basement ones) we were taught that in order to make money you had to leave to the city; which is true. We were never taught that you had to stay in your small town to "live". This is something I will pass down to my son.

[ - ] Endo_Aryan [op] 1 point 3.9 yearsJun 24, 2021 12:37:56 ago (+1/-0)

Yup, I was fed the same message. But their version of success was a competitive corporate job, which is true for some. Success could also be continuing the family business or starting your own, which are never promoted. Always work for someone else, the closer to a faceless corporation Fortune 500 the better.

[ - ] account deleted by user 0 points 3.9 yearsJun 24, 2021 14:38:39 ago (+0/-0)

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[ - ] dontknowwhatiwant 0 points 3.9 yearsJun 24, 2021 21:59:16 ago (+0/-0)

I cannot get over my want of moving there. After all of my research, the Idaho experience seems closest to what I perceive America will be left with when it all goes to shit. Here in Texas, sick of all of the liberals, Katrina re-plants thanks to the Castro brothers, & illegals/legals. Sick of them all. Sick of this life here and want something different. Thinking of selling my ranch and moving halfway across the country because I feel we are headed for trouble, and soon. My county has TRIPLED in size in the last TEN YEARS!

[ - ] MrPancake 0 points 3.9 yearsJun 25, 2021 10:16:18 ago (+0/-0)

Idaho is a great a state. We have all four seasons, we are constitutional carry, we are low in population, cost of living (aside from housing currently) is low. Population is mostly White, Christian, Conservative (I include Mormon in the Christian category) In the farming areas we have a large Mexican/South American population but they assimilate nicely. The ones that do not go to Boise, Nampa, Caldwell and do their gang banger shit. During the Plandemic I have not once worn a mask, I have not once been asked to wear a mask, not once told to wear a mask. Boise is a different story; it is California lite.

[ - ] XMgePZ7i4oAJYkRHgRwtapo42 3 points 3.9 yearsJun 24, 2021 12:25:07 ago (+3/-0)

I’m in the boonies and considering moving even further out

[ - ] Endo_Aryan [op] 1 point 3.9 yearsJun 24, 2021 12:31:39 ago (+1/-0)

I don't blame you

[ - ] mannerbund 3 points 3.9 yearsJun 24, 2021 10:01:53 ago (+3/-0)

I stayed behind, feed my parents, and raise my kids to avoid the cities. Convincing the young is the hardest part. Their peers, teachers, etc, influence them greatly.

[ - ] Endo_Aryan [op] 2 points 3.9 yearsJun 24, 2021 12:30:08 ago (+2/-0)

Good for you and your family. I left but came back. It didn't matter if I was in a big town or small, I wasn't from there and I didn't truly belong there.

What happens when shtf and all your neighbors are from somewhere else? Do they have the same sense of ownership over the land, will they stay and persevere? In my experience, no.

[ - ] WhiteGoat 2 points 3.9 yearsJun 24, 2021 12:03:39 ago (+2/-0)

My hometown is shit. I found a new small town that is much whiter.

[ - ] Flabbygasted 2 points 3.9 yearsJun 24, 2021 09:13:41 ago (+2/-0)

The first love of my life left me to pursue her dreams in the big city of Chicago...I wasnt going anywhere near that place. The last time I talked to her, she sounded pretty miserable in her hellhole.

What's worse, that or a generation going off to fight towelheads in a desert for a bunch of kikes?

[ - ] Endo_Aryan [op] 2 points 3.9 yearsJun 24, 2021 12:25:18 ago (+2/-0)

How about the sons of the generation that went off to fight towel heads going off to do the same thing? They're both terrible and either way, we lose.

[ - ] Flabbygasted 1 point 3.9 yearsJun 24, 2021 12:47:47 ago (+1/-0)

Seems like we lost a long time ago

[ - ] account deleted by user 1 point 3.9 yearsJun 24, 2021 14:43:13 ago (+1/-0)

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[ - ] Empire_of_the_Mind 1 point 3.9 yearsJun 24, 2021 14:32:43 ago (+1/-0)

If you have family and deep roots going back multiple generations in a town, you should stay there or at least return after seeking what the outside world has to offer. For people whose parents moved them somewhere away from any deep roots, this is a more complicated question.

[ - ] MrHarryReems 1 point 3.9 yearsJun 24, 2021 13:11:25 ago (+1/-0)

I was born in the city. My parents moved us to a small town when I was 5. My dad started a small business that he ran successfully for decades. When I was old enough to drive, there was a two lane road with a single stop sign that could get you from one end of town to the other. By the time I left at the age of 42, that two lane road was a six lane expressway jammed with traffic.

Now, I live in a small town with a population of 2600. There are so many people moving in now that it's making me nervous.

[ - ] Endo_Aryan [op] 0 points 3.9 yearsJun 24, 2021 20:28:17 ago (+0/-0)

I gave a woman a ride home the other day. Her home was in a nicer area of town, but with modest 2 and 3 bedrooms on decent sized lots. She pointed to her neighbor's house and said they put it up for sale last year and couldn't get the $580 they were asking for. But they put it up this spring and got $740 for it! I'm nervous too.

[ - ] mikenigger -1 points 3.9 yearsJun 24, 2021 10:01:22 ago (+1/-2)*

The world is black and white and you shouldn't leave your perfect hometown. /s