I'm not married, but am in the sort of relationship that appears to be leading towards marriage. I understand that having shared assets and joint bank accounts is "the norm" after people get married, but, considering how generally retarded women can be, particularly when it comes to how money they didn't earn is spent, I'm not convinced this is a good idea. Maybe having A shared account, that both the wife and husband make contributions to, and is used for expenses like bills, prop taxes, mortgage, and groceries, but mushing all assets together seems pretty fucking retarded, especially when one party, me in this case, has WAAAAAY more on the line than the other party.
What are your thoughts on this?
PS: I fully intend on presenting this woman with a very detailed prenup should I decide to pop the question. I have significant assets, and she does not. I suspect she will accuse me of not caring about her and all that bullshit that women are trained to accuse men of when they pull out a prenup, but I dgaf. If a prenup is a deal breaker, then it's clear what her intentions are, and I'm fine with letting the deal be broken.
cb1 -1 points 2.9 years ago
You absolutely need to join bank accounts. Even if your wife is pissing away her income, you need to know about it, and have access to it.
You ought to know of shes going to make bad decisions before you marry her.