But while they were married he had all the income and she had none. Don't courts try to preserve this? Wouldn't they actually be inclined to award her support?
Never ever trust a woman with your livelihood. They are all opportunistic harpies and your only chance to keep one is to be a better man than the next guy.
same thing happened to a guy I know. The day she graduated he came home to find her car packed. half of it his stuff,TV stereo etc, and she left. Sue that cunt to hell and back. Those are her loans.
Life lessons worth learning don't come cheap. I'm sorry, but there were signs that something was up. Next time, pay more attention to the girl and pay less of everything else.
[ - ] kishind 1 point 4.1 yearsMar 9, 2021 12:22:05 ago (+1/-0)
Close! "Never expect anything from anyone if you give them what they want first." High-loyalty men can be made an exception. Many men prioritize reciprocity in their relationships (so be careful not to make them feel like you've screwed them over).
The female exceptions are the type that sticks by their partner no matter how bad it gets. Rare. As a man it's extremely valuable to have the emotional and financial upper hand in your long-term romantic relationships - many women are instinctively repulsed when they have it.
This woman is clearly a Jew. Don't become an incel and blame all women for the actions of a Jew. That is no different than the niggers blaming white people for the actions of jews. This guy should have known better than to trust a jewess.
I personally know 4 men that this exact thing happened to. I went thru a similar divorce myself, minus the schooling. It sucks, and takes around a year before you start getting close to normal again. But it does get a lot better and eventually you will be much happier. Listen to the other posters that say not to speak to your ex. And don't drink, at least for the next year for sure. Just ignore everytime she tries to speak to you, and refer her to your lawyer. There's also a good chance she will start acting very crazy and angry and trying to upset you. She may even try to get back together or tempt you with sex, but don't fall for it. I promise it will never work out and she will just leave/cheat again. The best thing you can do is ignore her, enjoy your life and let her see you happy and she will probably get very angry and make some mistakes in the divorce in your favor.
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You gotta know how to pick'em, and know how to keep it together, and it's not like folks can rely on their parents' advice in these matters.
But, volcel is still a bullshit answer. We're supposed to be fruitful and multiply, especially if you want to stick a finger in the eye of the jew.
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The female exceptions are the type that sticks by their partner no matter how bad it gets. Rare. As a man it's extremely valuable to have the emotional and financial upper hand in your long-term romantic relationships - many women are instinctively repulsed when they have it.
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It sucks, and takes around a year before you start getting close to normal again. But it does get a lot better and eventually you will be much happier.
Listen to the other posters that say not to speak to your ex. And don't drink, at least for the next year for sure.
Just ignore everytime she tries to speak to you, and refer her to your lawyer. There's also a good chance she will start acting very crazy and angry and trying to upset you. She may even try to get back together or tempt you with sex, but don't fall for it. I promise it will never work out and she will just leave/cheat again.
The best thing you can do is ignore her, enjoy your life and let her see you happy and she will probably get very angry and make some mistakes in the divorce in your favor.