I'm surprised my gf is anti covid since she has a very strong pro government sentiment. She takes instagram and google as gospel, and is not capable of differentiating between an opinion and a fact. She is not self correcting or aware enough of her own behavior to understand how her behavior can be adapted. Her behavior can best be described as mixture a nigger brain and jewish mental predisposition. The weird thing is she's White as can be.
My gf has no emotional regulation. She dumps her feelings onto other people. The anxiety behavior boils down to severe issues with being able to communicate her feelings properly. The behavior is impossible to account for or predict. One day she can be normal. The next day, I may as well take a day off work to go on a wild goose chase. There is no rhyme and reason in her emotions. She was much better about this not even a year ago. Now, I have no idea why this behavior became progressively worse.
The thing is she also has a lot of good qualities. But now I can't tell if those qualities are genuine or fake. If she's so pro gov and pro compliance to the state and society, why is she anti covid? The qualities I loved are now being questioned because I can't tell why they were there in the first place.And if she only decided against COVID due to her own family telling her not to get it, than it shows severe mental acuity problems. This person doesn't make decisions, she waits until someone else makes the decision and weighs in on which decision "sounds" the best. This way if it goes south, she can immediately blame the other person.
In my home state, none of my behavior has ever been seen as out there. I've never had anyone call me mentally ill, or different. Even at my most racist and anti gay, I never had anyone tell me I was wrong. My speech went on to help people talk their minds more openly. The only reason i come off as out there, is because the PC window in NY is so far to the left, that calling a woman a woman makes you some crazy, deranged monster.
A good example of a problem im dealing with. I went to a pulm appointment. The scheduled a follow up, but my gf wanted to come along. They had mutliple slots: one slot was after my work day and wouldn't impede with my workday. The other is early afternoon and impedes with my workday. One day they were open late, the other they close early. Guess which one my gf decided to go for? I've had to call multiple times because i create one appointment than my gf has a "conflict" and i need to reschedule, but then the reschedule ends up conflicting with my own workday.
Instead of being certain which appointment to take, she flip flops and ends up changing her mind, causing multiple reschedules (this isnt just a pulm issue either), conflicts, etc. This is how a follow up appointment can go from being next week to next month due to all the scheduling conflicts. The second issue is she keeps piling on new items onto her schedule, without ever checking to see if there's a conflict in the first place, which leads to even more issues.
This person absolutely refuses to concede an inch when it comes to practicality, so i end up having to chop up my own day to accommodate hers. What makes this all deeply ironic is that her job is part time in the mornings ... so im really just having to accommodate to my gf being lazy, tired or too ignorant to check her schedule.
heytheremyfriends 0 points 1.5 years ago
A good example of a problem im dealing with. I went to a pulm appointment. The scheduled a follow up, but my gf wanted to come along. They had mutliple slots: one slot was after my work day and wouldn't impede with my workday. The other is early afternoon and impedes with my workday. One day they were open late, the other they close early. Guess which one my gf decided to go for? I've had to call multiple times because i create one appointment than my gf has a "conflict" and i need to reschedule, but then the reschedule ends up conflicting with my own workday.
Instead of being certain which appointment to take, she flip flops and ends up changing her mind, causing multiple reschedules (this isnt just a pulm issue either), conflicts, etc. This is how a follow up appointment can go from being next week to next month due to all the scheduling conflicts. The second issue is she keeps piling on new items onto her schedule, without ever checking to see if there's a conflict in the first place, which leads to even more issues.
This person absolutely refuses to concede an inch when it comes to practicality, so i end up having to chop up my own day to accommodate hers. What makes this all deeply ironic is that her job is part time in the mornings ... so im really just having to accommodate to my gf being lazy, tired or too ignorant to check her schedule.