I get a lot of female attention but wind up with medicore psychos because i have mental blocks that sabotages me. In the past week I screwed up several opportunities with hot, eager women. Then I have some insane roastie getting bitter at me. I’m sick of this shit.
I think I have an approach to work on it though. I've been trying to foster my sense of competition and also do more things outside of my comfort zone. So things like playing a sport where someone loses, or something that's a little dangerous and scary to learn like mountain biking. And just taking more (reasonable) risks in general.
Feels like that pushes my general mindset in the right direction. Can't be easy though. It's the intensity that does it.
Also not doing that thing where you're thinking about it so you start looking up answers on the internet. That seems to push my mindset in the wrong direction 9 times out of 10. Not worth it even for the occasional insight.
anon 0 points 2.9 years ago
I think I have an approach to work on it though. I've been trying to foster my sense of competition and also do more things outside of my comfort zone. So things like playing a sport where someone loses, or something that's a little dangerous and scary to learn like mountain biking. And just taking more (reasonable) risks in general.
Feels like that pushes my general mindset in the right direction. Can't be easy though. It's the intensity that does it.
Also not doing that thing where you're thinking about it so you start looking up answers on the internet. That seems to push my mindset in the wrong direction 9 times out of 10. Not worth it even for the occasional insight.