Need advice - got savagely dumped (whatever)
submitted by TheDivineLight to whatever 2.1 years ago
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I've had some advice irl, but most people are just calling her a cunt etc. Need some more help.
Just got dumped in the most brutal way possible, heart, soul destroying shit and I'm not sure what to do. Basically she was the unicorn at a glance, younger, no prior boyfriends, not a virgin(but that's not gonna happen), good dad, shared memes about the Jews, played spot the tranny with me, had a kid with me. I mean....I felt so happy even discussing the next.
Then she said she had 4 days trip with her best friend, got down there, said she was safe, she loves me and good night. Next day a text it's over. She couldn't even call. Told me she would move in with this girl. Says she's not happy, had to take the chance now. Will collect her things in Friday, then says shes gonna stay a bit longer to help her pal, will be up next week. Next day our kids tablet emails pings, she's booked train tickets elsewhere. Another man. She texts saying just a friend, she swears. Kids tablet pings, his name in hearts on her Instagram....she comes clean will be back in a month now....might move there, in with him, just like that.
Our kid has forgotten her now...this new guy has two kids to an ex and being honest is ugly, fat and broke....she lied every step of the way...
Lads where did I fuck up? I did everything I could to get a decent one. It took 2 years of online bullshit to find her. Single dad now and older.
Finally looked in tinder, hinge and POF. I ain't paying so limited choice. And i noticed 999/1000 women even the younger ones all look so old, worn, ugly and fat.
Am I too old? I wanted more kids, but is it over? I'm 35 now. Good shape, car, house, most of my hair.
And of course some days are still hard.
What would you do? Am I acting a faggot? I did block the whore across the board. She's dead to me.