I had a confrontation with a customer at work the other day. Long story short, he wanted to be rude and I was hoping a mother fucker would. No consequences on my end, he's not allowed back.
Acquaintance that I've helped through a divorce contacted me recently. He's been ghosting me since, but now he's getting married again, so he wants to be chummy again. Fuck that. I don't need part time friends.
I'm pretty sick of people's shit right now, I don't know if I need to settle down or if people are just fucked up. I tend to match intensity, so I think the world's gone crazy and I'm just having to navigate the bullshit.
I hate being angry. That shit takes a lot out of me. I had anger problems when I was younger, and I've worked hard to overcome that shit. I feel angry a lot lately. I channel it into music when I get home, but in the moment I'm ready to go to jail. What do you guys think? Just me, something in the air, or natural response to clown world.
Not that I think the law is right by nature, but if you are going to jail over your anger management issues then you are in the wrong. Why don't you just try communicating honestly with people but keeping fists out of it?
I think you should be nice to that friend. You can have only so many non-part time friends so if you demand that people be in contact with you with no variation then you aren't going to have a lot of friends. You can have only around 3 best friends at most. And remember they can only have around 3. If you need them to stay a best friend for life then that's being pretty needy.
Try seeing the outdoors more. Maybe take that friend hiking and tell him what you think.
soupnazi -2 points 12 months ago
Not that I think the law is right by nature, but if you are going to jail over your anger management issues then you are in the wrong. Why don't you just try communicating honestly with people but keeping fists out of it?
I think you should be nice to that friend. You can have only so many non-part time friends so if you demand that people be in contact with you with no variation then you aren't going to have a lot of friends. You can have only around 3 best friends at most. And remember they can only have around 3. If you need them to stay a best friend for life then that's being pretty needy.
Try seeing the outdoors more. Maybe take that friend hiking and tell him what you think.