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→ be me
→ dad is INTJ Anglo pilot
→ taught me how to be orderly and efficient and civilized in public (proper etiquette and politeness)
→ friend is dirty spic
→ is constantly doing the diametric opposite of what I was taught, much to my embarrassment
→ stands still in the aisle at grocery stores - blocking people’s path
→ on bike rides goes on the sidewalk and doesn’t stop for traffic, just keeps gliding around thinking it will make him get to his destination faster
→ doesn’t make decisive moves, just stands there slack jawed waiting for a written invitation to do anything
→ we were just at a store and the cashier called next and he’s just standing there like “I can go?”
→ reaches for the top shelf at stores and knocks over shit
→ feels like he is an NPC who follows me around
→ makes me look like a retard by association

What is this personality type, is it remediable, and how do I tell him? Maybe his Latin “passion” (low IQ) makes him unaware of the concept of consideration for others and of certain rules that make things flow better for everybody.

I've heard the idea that some genotypes put order into the world, some follow, and others destroy (blacks)? Because he’s definitely a follower who hasn’t been told how to act, so he defaults to retardation. He’s a nice guy though, not malicious, which is why it’s harder to chew into him. I'd much rather this be a problem that is fixable.