For now I was stupid enough to listen and actually compromise with this person. They used that good nature to deceptively lie, manipulate and deceive their way into what they want. So now, I want blood. What's some good ways to put this bitch back into place?
High level overview: My wife is heavily enmeshed and manipulated by her mom. It's to the point the mom just has to breathe a certain way and my wife will comply. She worships this person, and it has caused a massive strain in our marriage. My wife is of the idea that if we keep enabling and pacifying her mom, one day she'll stop and well all be one happy family. The mom also uses spiritual gaslighting to hide her shitty behavior under a call for live and let live, forgive and forget, never speak bad about people (ie the truth of their actions), i just didnt know better (paris hilton defense when she CLEARLY should have known better), gays and niggers are just like (the fuck they are), never talk about anything bad ever because its uncomfortable, having money or being wealthy is a sin (but her stealing it is A-ok because fuck you)
SmallGuyFromBrooklyn -1 points 8 months ago
High level overview: My wife is heavily enmeshed and manipulated by her mom. It's to the point the mom just has to breathe a certain way and my wife will comply. She worships this person, and it has caused a massive strain in our marriage. My wife is of the idea that if we keep enabling and pacifying her mom, one day she'll stop and well all be one happy family. The mom also uses spiritual gaslighting to hide her shitty behavior under a call for live and let live, forgive and forget, never speak bad about people (ie the truth of their actions), i just didnt know better (paris hilton defense when she CLEARLY should have known better), gays and niggers are just like (the fuck they are), never talk about anything bad ever because its uncomfortable, having money or being wealthy is a sin (but her stealing it is A-ok because fuck you)