Don't listen to what they say but rather what they do.
If you think women aren't obsessed with sex, open your eyes. What are men's interests? There are many: sports, nerdy hobbies, documentaries, outdoors activities, science, etc. We are all nerds at something. Women's shows, magazines, TV shows and fiction in general are often centered around love, romance and sex, in one way or another. Sex toys, sex advice, sex and the city, make up, lingerie, perfumes, etc. All feminine things, all related to sex. There are very few sex toys for men and nobody buys them. Women, on the other hand, have closets full of "massaging items"
See the books women tend to read; intense "romantic" stories, and nothing more. The protagonist is usually a damsel in distress that's good for nothing and the romantic interest is either a millionaire, a "savage", a pirate, an abusive vampire, a rockstar, etc. Twilight, Fabio novels, Shades of grey, and many others are but examples.
In all cases, it is a dominant, assertive and masculine man who has the upper hand in the relationship and completely dominates her. She's the respectable lady and you're the preposterous savage who took her without asking and had your way with her. Or she's the poor little girl and you're the man.
Now you don't need to be either of those things; being a normal guy is more than enough, but the point is that women are looking for men. Men with balls who stand up for themselves and don't fall for their bullshit. She'll throw fits and test you just to see how you'll react. Keep calm. In her mind, you're cooler than you think, and she expects you to act accordingly. That's why she gets "pissed" when she sees you're indecisive, insecure or unassertive. She can't understand why her man isn't taking the reins of his life.
Skeptic5000 1 points 4 years ago
Don't listen to what they say but rather what they do.
If you think women aren't obsessed with sex, open your eyes. What are men's interests? There are many: sports, nerdy hobbies, documentaries, outdoors activities, science, etc. We are all nerds at something. Women's shows, magazines, TV shows and fiction in general are often centered around love, romance and sex, in one way or another. Sex toys, sex advice, sex and the city, make up, lingerie, perfumes, etc. All feminine things, all related to sex. There are very few sex toys for men and nobody buys them. Women, on the other hand, have closets full of "massaging items"
See the books women tend to read; intense "romantic" stories, and nothing more. The protagonist is usually a damsel in distress that's good for nothing and the romantic interest is either a millionaire, a "savage", a pirate, an abusive vampire, a rockstar, etc. Twilight, Fabio novels, Shades of grey, and many others are but examples.
In all cases, it is a dominant, assertive and masculine man who has the upper hand in the relationship and completely dominates her. She's the respectable lady and you're the preposterous savage who took her without asking and had your way with her. Or she's the poor little girl and you're the man.
Now you don't need to be either of those things; being a normal guy is more than enough, but the point is that women are looking for men. Men with balls who stand up for themselves and don't fall for their bullshit. She'll throw fits and test you just to see how you'll react. Keep calm. In her mind, you're cooler than you think, and she expects you to act accordingly. That's why she gets "pissed" when she sees you're indecisive, insecure or unassertive. She can't understand why her man isn't taking the reins of his life.